socialization, relationships

"i personally wanna see less 'you are not a burden/its not work to love you' and more 'you are worth the work it takes to love you' [...]

pretending love isnt work will never make people like me feel less guilty for accepting love. we need to talk about it so people dont feel bad for having boundaries and not always being up to do the work. we need to accept it so we can properly appreciate what others do for us and what we're doing for them"